Thoughts on Leadership

Felicia Jeffley • April 28, 2025

Why leadership isn't something you take off.

I'll admit it: I love delivery services.

Groceries, packages, meals — if it can show up at my front door, I’m a happy customer. Staying home, managing life quietly, has its appeal.


But eventually, I have to step outside.

And when I do, whether it’s a quick run to the store or an errand across town, something important happens: I put my leadership hat back on.


It doesn’t matter that I’m technically “off-duty.”

Leadership, once you embrace it, isn’t something you wear just at work or during business hours. It's part of who you are.


A Real-World Example: Leadership at the Grocery Store

I could be standing in the grocery store minding my own business, trying to find the best deal on fruit.

Out of nowhere, a stranger next to me sighs and says,

"These prices!"


Now, I have a choice:


Ignore them and move along


Complain with them


Start a debate about the economy or politics


Or — listen, acknowledge their frustration, and give them a brief moment of kindness


Because I believe in "Leader Always," I choose to listen. I stay centered, offer a few calm words, and leave them feeling a little more seen and heard — even in the checkout line.


That's leadership.

It's not about taking charge. It's about presence. It's about carrying the values of leadership with you wherever you go.


Leadership Isn't Situational — It's Personal

At work, the same truth applies.

You don't get to take the hat off when times are tough, when tech is changing fast, when a team member frustrates you, or when you're just tired.


Walking down the hallway? You’re leading.


Facing tough decisions during rapid AI changes? You're leading.


Managing through a reorganization? You're leading.


Celebrating a big win with the team? Still leading.


Leader Always means showing up consistently — in the good, the hard, and the uncertain moments.

It means carrying your integrity, calm, and values into every room, every conversation, every situation.


Why This Matters Now More Than Ever

In a world where change is constant — from technological innovation to shifting workplace dynamics — people need stable, steady leadership.


They need leaders who don't just lead when it's convenient or when eyes are on them.

They need leaders who show up fully, every day, whether anyone notices or not.


Final Thought

Leadership isn’t a role you play.

It’s a life you live.


So even on a grocery run, or while managing OKRs during a major AI transformation, remember:

The hat stays on.

Leader Always.


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